Celibacy best defined in hinduism is trying to attain absolute purity of thought while dwelling in the domain of the spirituality, all the while keeping sexual urges under absolute wraps. Being celibate is always voluntary. Those who advocate becoming involuntary celibate have not clearly understood the meaning! Those already married and desirous of proceeding on the path of pure spirituality have a decision to make... apart from their married partner they shall not have any sensual tendencies towards a female other than as expressed above